Arora,

I finally got my boyfriend to start talking dirty in
bed, but when he does, he calls me names like bitch or
slut. He doesn’t really mean it though, right?

Scranton, CT

Answer:

Well, of course he means it! …Just teasin. No he doesn’t mean any of it. Generally when talking dirty, the girl takes on the submissive role and the guy the dominant. And it wouldn’t really be dirty if he called you “sweetheart” or “my love.” He’s your boyfriend and he only does it in bed AND because you wanted him to. My advice, get into it and enjoy it! I’ll bet anything he’d love if you swore at him too!