Arora,

What do you do when you’ve been in love with someone who doesnt love you back? He knows I’m head over heels for him and sometimes he gives me signals that he is interested and other times he leaves me in the dust. I can’t get over him, what do I do?

Teased in Tennessee

Answer:

Where’s your confidence babe? Why do you suddenly need this guy’s attention to get through your day when just before you met him, you did whatever your little heart desired on a daily basis?

A little secret on dudes; it isn’t about getting the gal, rather knowing we can have her whenever we want. If he really wanted you for himself, you’d be with him by now. Until you realize that, you’re not gonna get over him.

Dress nicer than usual this week and grab the attention you so deserve. It’ll boost your self-esteem and speed up the process of getting over him. Sure its superficial but so is what you’re getting from the other guy. Also, make plans and have a girls night out. Mingle with the singles and escape reality for a night. Slowly but surely you’ll get over him. Soon he’ll notice the lack of attention he’s getting from you and either try to get it back, or get over himself. By then, you’ll be in control and when the balls in your court, you’ll know what to do.

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