First know Arora gives you credit for admitting the game exist, though at times you hate it, and still mannin’-up and tackling it. Very cool. (ArorA credits value 1/1000 of 1 American cent. Can be redeemed for idiocy at participating Wal-Marts)

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Arora’s advice to you is that if you’re gonna give it a shot with a gamer, play by the rules. The dating scene is just our species’ way of finding 2 things: a person we can be vulnerable with, and a reason to put out without feeling like a slut. Sounds terribly blunt, but thats it! 

Now there’s nothing wrong with being yourself. But that means tell him the basics -  your favorite song, kinda shows you’re into, what wakes you up in the morning - shallow shit! Build an attraction.  Let his hormones tell him whether or not he wants to see you tomorrow. The problem most people in your situation have, is rather then be yourself, you’re confessing. Thats like adding milk to the chemistry. Both in conversation and body language you let the guy know everything else - thats what the dating scene it for! You’re there for the same reason he is, you’re no different.

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… except for one thing: if he were to be straight forward and honest you’d probably appreciate it and move closer rather than away (hence the question). That does bring up another issue on fear.

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If you were job hunting and knew that there her dozens of jobs out there you were a shoe-in for, you wouldn’t care if someone didn’t hire you. You’d move on to the next one! Hell if Arora realized during the interview that he, himself didn’t want the job, he’s start talking about the 10 years he spent as a goat farmer in Calcutta and that boil on his ass he needs motor oil to get rid of. You have a fear of numbers that the gamer doesn’t. If you don’t make it with this guy, who the f*ck cares?! There’s hundreds of guys out there, date way! What’s the worse that could happen on a date? You walk out? 

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Arora says don’t be so tense and eager to see if it’ll work. Relax and tease! Find out what his vice is. Use your bootie babe! It’ll keep up his interest, boost your confidence, teach you a lot about guys, and increase your chance of possibly having the honor of kickin’ it with Arora. He’s got plenty of motor oil!